Inside the mind of a master procrastinator | Tim Urban

Inside the mind of a master procrastinator | Tim Urban

So in college, I was a government major, which means I had to write
a lot of papers. Now, when a normal student writes a paper, they might spread the work out
a little like this. So, you know — (Laughter) you get started maybe a little slowly, but you get enough done in the first week that, with some heavier days later on, everything gets done, things stay civil. (Laughter) And I would want to do that like that. That would be the plan. I would have it all ready to go, but then, actually, the paper
would come along, and then I would kind of do this. (Laughter) And that would happen every single paper. But then came my 90-page senior thesis, a paper you’re supposed
to spend a year on. And I knew for a paper like that,
my normal work flow was not an option. It was way too big a project. So I planned things out, and I decided I kind of had
to go something like this. This is how the year would go. So I’d start off light, and I’d bump it up in the middle months, and then at the end,
I would kick it up into high gear just like a little staircase. How hard could it be
to walk up the stairs? No big deal, right? But then, the funniest thing happened. Those first few months? They came and went, and I couldn’t quite do stuff. So we had an awesome new revised plan. (Laughter) And then — (Laughter) But then those middle months
actually went by, and I didn’t really write words, and so we were here. And then two months turned into one month, which turned into two weeks. And one day I woke up with three days until the deadline, still not having written a word, and so I did the only thing I could: I wrote 90 pages over 72 hours, pulling not one but two all-nighters — humans are not supposed to pull
two all-nighters — sprinted across campus, dove in slow motion, and got it in just at the deadline. I thought that was the end of everything. But a week later I get a call, and it’s the school. And they say, “Is this Tim Urban?” And I say, “Yeah.” And they say, “We need
to talk about your thesis.” And I say, “OK.” And they say, “It’s the best one we’ve ever seen.” (Laughter) (Applause) That did not happen. (Laughter) It was a very, very bad thesis. (Laughter) I just wanted to enjoy that one moment
when all of you thought, “This guy is amazing!” (Laughter) No, no, it was very, very bad. Anyway, today I’m a writer-blogger guy. I write the blog Wait But Why. And a couple of years ago,
I decided to write about procrastination. My behavior has always perplexed
the non-procrastinators around me, and I wanted to explain
to the non-procrastinators of the world what goes on in the heads
of procrastinators, and why we are the way we are. Now, I had a hypothesis that the brains of procrastinators
were actually different than the brains of other people. And to test this, I found an MRI lab that actually let me scan both my brain and the brain of a proven
non-procrastinator, so I could compare them. I actually brought them here
to show you today. I want you to take a look carefully
to see if you can notice a difference. I know that if you’re not
a trained brain expert, it’s not that obvious,
but just take a look, OK? So here’s the brain
of a non-procrastinator. (Laughter) Now … here’s my brain. (Laughter) There is a difference. Both brains have a Rational
Decision-Maker in them, but the procrastinator’s brain also has an Instant Gratification Monkey. Now, what does this mean
for the procrastinator? Well, it means everything’s fine
until this happens. [This is a perfect time
to get some work done.] [Nope!] So the Rational Decision-Maker
will make the rational decision to do something productive, but the Monkey doesn’t like that plan, so he actually takes the wheel, and he says, “Actually, let’s read
the entire Wikipedia page of the Nancy Kerrigan/
Tonya Harding scandal, because I just remembered
that that happened. (Laughter) Then — (Laughter) Then we’re going to go over to the fridge, to see if there’s anything new
in there since 10 minutes ago. After that, we’re going to go
on a YouTube spiral that starts with videos
of Richard Feynman talking about magnets and ends much, much later
with us watching interviews with Justin Bieber’s mom. (Laughter) “All of that’s going to take a while, so we’re not going to really have room
on the schedule for any work today. Sorry!” (Sigh) Now, what is going on here? The Instant Gratification Monkey
does not seem like a guy you want behind the wheel. He lives entirely in the present moment. He has no memory of the past,
no knowledge of the future, and he only cares about two things: easy and fun. Now, in the animal world, that works fine. If you’re a dog and you spend your whole life doing
nothing other than easy and fun things, you’re a huge success! (Laughter) And to the Monkey, humans are just another animal species. You have to keep well-slept, well-fed
and propagating into the next generation, which in tribal times
might have worked OK. But, if you haven’t noticed,
now we’re not in tribal times. We’re in an advanced civilization,
and the Monkey does not know what that is. Which is why we have
another guy in our brain, the Rational Decision-Maker, who gives us the ability to do things
no other animal can do. We can visualize the future. We can see the big picture. We can make long-term plans. And he wants to take
all of that into account. And he wants to just have us do whatever makes sense
to be doing right now. Now, sometimes it makes sense to be doing things that are easy and fun, like when you’re having dinner
or going to bed or enjoying well-earned leisure time. That’s why there’s an overlap. Sometimes they agree. But other times, it makes much more sense to be doing things that are harder
and less pleasant, for the sake of the big picture. And that’s when we have a conflict. And for the procrastinator, that conflict tends to end
a certain way every time, leaving him spending a lot of time
in this orange zone, an easy and fun place that’s entirely
out of the Makes Sense circle. I call it the Dark Playground. (Laughter) Now, the Dark Playground is a place that all of you procrastinators
out there know very well. It’s where leisure activities happen at times when leisure activities
are not supposed to be happening. The fun you have in the Dark Playground isn’t actually fun,
because it’s completely unearned, and the air is filled with guilt,
dread, anxiety, self-hatred — all of those good procrastinator feelings. And the question is, in this situation,
with the Monkey behind the wheel, how does the procrastinator ever get
himself over here to this blue zone, a less pleasant place, but where
really important things happen? Well, turns out the procrastinator
has a guardian angel, someone who’s always looking
down on him and watching over him in his darkest moments — someone called the Panic Monster. (Laughter) Now, the Panic Monster
is dormant most of the time, but he suddenly wakes up
anytime a deadline gets too close or there’s danger of public embarrassment, a career disaster or some other
scary consequence. And importantly, he’s the only thing
the Monkey is terrified of. Now, he became very relevant
in my life pretty recently, because the people of TED
reached out to me about six months ago and invited me to do a TED Talk. (Laughter) Now, of course, I said yes. It’s always been a dream of mine
to have done a TED Talk in the past. (Laughter) (Applause) But in the middle of all this excitement, the Rational Decision-Maker seemed
to have something else on his mind. He was saying, “Are we clear
on what we just accepted? Do we get what’s going to be now
happening one day in the future? We need to sit down
and work on this right now.” And the Monkey said, “Totally agree,
but let’s just open Google Earth and zoom in to the bottom of India,
like 200 feet above the ground, and scroll up for two and a half hours
til we get to the top of the country, so we can get a better feel for India.” (Laughter) So that’s what we did that day. (Laughter) As six months turned into four
and then two and then one, the people of TED decided
to release the speakers. And I opened up the website,
and there was my face staring right back at me. And guess who woke up? (Laughter) So the Panic Monster
starts losing his mind, and a few seconds later,
the whole system’s in mayhem. (Laughter) And the Monkey — remember,
he’s terrified of the Panic Monster — boom, he’s up the tree! And finally, finally, the Rational Decision-Maker
can take the wheel and I can start working on the talk. Now, the Panic Monster explains all kinds of pretty insane
procrastinator behavior, like how someone like me
could spend two weeks unable to start the opening
sentence of a paper, and then miraculously find
the unbelievable work ethic to stay up all night
and write eight pages. And this entire situation,
with the three characters — this is the procrastinator’s system. It’s not pretty, but in the end, it works. This is what I decided to write about
on the blog a couple of years ago. When I did, I was amazed by the response. Literally thousands of emails came in, from all different kinds of people
from all over the world, doing all different kinds of things. These are people who were nurses,
bankers, painters, engineers and lots and lots of PhD students. (Laughter) And they were all writing,
saying the same thing: “I have this problem too.” But what struck me was the contrast
between the light tone of the post and the heaviness of these emails. These people were writing
with intense frustration about what procrastination
had done to their lives, about what this Monkey had done to them. And I thought about this, and I said, well, if the procrastinator’s system
works, then what’s going on? Why are all of these people
in such a dark place? Well, it turns out that there’s
two kinds of procrastination. Everything I’ve talked about today,
the examples I’ve given, they all have deadlines. And when there’s deadlines, the effects of procrastination
are contained to the short term because the Panic Monster gets involved. But there’s a second kind
of procrastination that happens in situations
when there is no deadline. So if you wanted a career
where you’re a self-starter — something in the arts,
something entrepreneurial — there’s no deadlines on those things
at first, because nothing’s happening, not until you’ve gone out
and done the hard work to get momentum, get things going. There’s also all kinds of important things
outside of your career that don’t involve any deadlines, like seeing your family or exercising
and taking care of your health, working on your relationship or getting out of a relationship
that isn’t working. Now if the procrastinator’s only mechanism
of doing these hard things is the Panic Monster, that’s a problem, because in all of these
non-deadline situations, the Panic Monster doesn’t show up. He has nothing to wake up for, so the effects of procrastination,
they’re not contained; they just extend outward forever. And it’s this long-term
kind of procrastination that’s much less visible
and much less talked about than the funnier, short-term
deadline-based kind. It’s usually suffered
quietly and privately. And it can be the source of a huge amount of long-term
unhappiness, and regrets. And I thought, that’s why
those people are emailing, and that’s why they’re
in such a bad place. It’s not that they’re cramming
for some project. It’s that long-term procrastination
has made them feel like a spectator, at times, in their own lives. The frustration is not
that they couldn’t achieve their dreams; it’s that they weren’t even
able to start chasing them. So I read these emails
and I had a little bit of an epiphany — that I don’t think
non-procrastinators exist. That’s right — I think all of you
are procrastinators. Now, you might not all be a mess, like some of us, (Laughter) and some of you may have
a healthy relationship with deadlines, but remember: the Monkey’s sneakiest trick is when the deadlines aren’t there. Now, I want to show you one last thing. I call this a Life Calendar. That’s one box for every week
of a 90-year life. That’s not that many boxes, especially since we’ve already
used a bunch of those. So I think we need to all take a long,
hard look at that calendar. We need to think about what
we’re really procrastinating on, because everyone is procrastinating
on something in life. We need to stay aware
of the Instant Gratification Monkey. That’s a job for all of us. And because there’s not
that many boxes on there, it’s a job that should
probably start today. Well, maybe not today, but … (Laughter) You know. Sometime soon. Thank you. (Applause)

Comments (100)

  1. I got anxiety just from watching this video because I thought about all the times I procrastinated on school work.

  2. this is so me except i don't have a panic monster

  3. this guy is hilarious and soo relatable

  4. Ok fine I'll start working

  5. That box woke up the panic monster.

  6. The true master procrastinator would put this video for "watch later."

    And sadly that's exactly what I did

  7. I was procrastinating
    I should get back to work

    After this next video

  8. Me: I'll do it at 6
    Me: *looks at clock*
    My brain: Oh it's 6: 01, guess you have to do it at 7!

  9. I read his blog post about this talk on his website Wait But Why and he procrastinated his way through the entire talk hahaha. He did a great job though.

  10. Saved to watch later

  11. I think I will watch this later….

  12. Is it ironic that the YouTube monkey just told me to take a break while watching this video?

  13. i was studying and then the instant gratification made me go here

  14. Yeah the panic monster is actually one of the best things that me a procrastinator that ever happened to me. I get a deep gut feeling if something is due in a day or two. It legit wakes me up at 4am if I have an assignment due the next day I forgot about. Which I bang out in 3 hours. It gives me the ability to pull all nighters the day before something is due.

  15. "the dark playground" sounds like a good name for a cult or a gory anime or something

  16. i think i have a monkey that is no longer afraid of the panic monster
    panic monster shows up and monkey's like "lol ok"

  17. this is what I needed; lmao I started clapping out of nowhere and my parents were quite surprised.

  18. i am still procrastinating

  19. Funny, I guess I have a monkey brain..
    – but my work usually end up fine.. even it has been done in last seconds..
    Maybe I have somehow a timer that tells me when to start doing the work, without making a mess out of it..

  20. I am a procrastinator but I think that this is a serious problem and I am not able to it fix the last three years… I don't thinks that's funny (I am talking about the comment section)

  21. I stopped the video mid way to get back to what I was supposed to do

  22. Second time watching this and I still feel for the ,,It's the best one we've ever seen" stunt XD

  23. One of the best YouTube videos, as Naruto's OST

  24. Ohhhh "The Panic Monster" arrived .

  25. 2:29
    Not gonna lie they had us in the first half

  26. i procrastinated grade 11 and doing same in 12 now. just made a revive plan!!. I think i got a permanent solution for procrastination….watch "sadhguru" on youtube and attend his "inner engineering" program asap, im gonna attend it on Oct 5,6( in delhi). Also watch "Vaisakh Sabu" videos, it will tell you about inner engineering experiences of people. I watched "sadhguru" videos, logical and just great videos. I still havent experienced the Inner engineering program but i know it is gonna be transformative.

  27. If this guy was a procrastinatior he would never,, ever EVER would have made it for a ted talk. Layer…

  28. 14:00 – this is where he is wrong. The procrationater system doesnt work. The we miss the deadline and we suffer alot from it.

  29. Been procrastinating for like 5 years. I wish I could stop being retarded and do things ,but I just never do. Even if I knew what to do I probably won't do it. I need help ,but I delay that too. I'm inside a cycle of depression and bullshit and the spinning is only getting faster

  30. I'll watch this video soon, I just have to finish the last 38 seasons of my show first

  31. The panic monster is afraid of the depression monster

  32. The monkey is "Resistance"

  33. Problem is my procrastination has spread into other things in life aside from work such as basic day to day choirs. "I'll do it tomorrow"

  34. Who has seen this in recommended for months and weeks, and finally sat down to watch it.

  35. Haven't related to any speech so accurately as this one. Fantastic

  36. death is a good deadline, and you don't know its date, so basically your monster should be always on. You know what is most common regret that people have before death? That they wasted their life.

  37. when you're a procrastinator but also have anxiety.

  38. Elon Musk is the only guy who cant relate to this

  39. What is Youtube recomend insinuating?

  40. You know because of this video talking about procrastination monkey, I decided to go on my computer and finally apply for my classes. I turn on my computer, see my games and played that instead

  41. i really gotta do stuff for school rn 🗿

  42. I have this problem too.. Even worse sometimes the panic monster involved too late… 😂

  43. OMG. I'm watching this while I have 4 days left to study for quals. Panic monster is telling me to stop watching….. gotta finish? Great talk.

  44. The "let's read wikipedia page" really attacked me. Whenever i hv assginment, i always remember things like constantinopel or who is zeus parents and ended up spent hours on that page. Happy to know there's people like that too

  45. As a non procrastinator and an action person, I was hoping to find some help here from a procrastinator for my husband, who drives me crazy with doing everything at the last minute, or not at all because there is no deadline. Unfortunately, this video was less than helpful, and a bit of a disappointment.

  46. That is why I love deadline it keeps me going.. I hate task with no deadline.

  47. I'm procrastinating on seeing my kids

  48. He procrastinated in creating a Ted talk about procrastination. Ted definitely picked the right man for the job.

  49. I have these problems to. And watching this made me feel a lot better. He gave the perfect explanation. Thank you 😄😊

  50. i didnt needed to be attacked like this

  51. This video was recommended to me because it was in my ‘Watch Later’ playlist

  52. English is my third language, I started watching this so that I'd finally would find out what procrastination is. The penny dropped pretty soon: oh, he's describing me 😯

  53. Wdym there are deadlines for everything HECK OUR LIFE HAS A DEATH LINE

  54. Stop scrolling through the comments!
    Get up and do something!

  55. Omg, he's like a hotter Fred Savage!

  56. I think he's on to something with being a spectator, I think it has to do with dissociation and probably trauma. For me, healing emotionally had reduced this cycle tremendously. I'm more respectful of my physical limits too so I am motivated to plan enough time for something So I will be able to take breaks and not be too tired. It's a huge change from when I was younger. It's like taking back your life and taking responsibility for how you feel and paying attention to your physical and emotional needs and limits really helps!!

  57. it took me whole day to finish watching this video

  58. Had a college project once. We had 8 weeks to do it. The lecturer stressed that this was a huge project and we must not waste one single day, and he said "Start this project the DAY you get it, or you wont even have enough time just to type!" I started only 3 days before the due date. Got 91%

  59. I think in my case my brain has an instant gratification gorilla.

  60. I'm literally watching this instead of studying

  61. Having managed to avoid all the history classes over the previous two years (in secondary school), I read a large part of one of the books on the bus to school (on the way to take my exam), hoping it would be OK….. To make it worse, I was suprised when my exam classification on the subject was 'unclassified'! LOL
    There are times when we procrastinators take it too far…..

  62. You may have mastered procrastination but, I perfected it

  63. Did I take too long to watch this Ted talk💤

  64. I have to pee but I’d rather watch this

  65. YouTube spiraler here …..

  66. When i smoked weed regularly I wasnt a procrastinator. In the years I've all but stopped, major procrastinator🤷‍♀️ The "lazy pot-head" stereotype is bs I had much more focus etc back then

  67. The Dark Playground is an incredibly accurate description of my life.

  68. Learned that I'm not a master lvl procrastinator just a medium lvl

  69. I’m watching this while procrastinating sleep

  70. I don't have the panic monster, so I just don't do anything.

  71. i like this but he didn't explain how to avoid the monkey, i guess he procrastinated this ted talk.

  72. I didn't want to click on this video because I didn't want to be confronted with the fact I procrastinate 99% of the time, but I'm glad I did watch it. Very accurate, very motivational and also comforting to know I'm not alone

  73. I find that my best work is often done at the very last moment when I have to achieve at absolute maximum capacity in a very short time.

  74. I should be studying for my test in AP English (which is on the first day of school), but I found this and I don’t think I’ve laughed at a TED Talk before.

  75. This is so freaking relatable
    The worst part is I realize I should like do stuff but I just end up never doing it
    Like ugh

  76. I couldn’t relate to a YouTube video any more than this one. Legend😂😭😭😭😭

  77. watching this video as i procrastinate from writing an essay

  78. Procrastination is such an ugly word……"go with the flow" sounds so much better….

  79. I honestly thought he was gonna shade out 30 to 50 years worth of boxes so we could see if our panic monster tries to show up LOL

  80. That talk fits me well.

  81. I procrastinate procrastinating 🤷🏼‍♀️

  82. This ted talk was actually one of the best ones i saw and heard and means a lot but all of y'all are just making procrastinating jokes and it just… no

  83. now that im done, time to get back to english and ap chem summer work

  84. i have an two ap summer assignments due on wednesday 🙁

  85. Awesome job man! One of my fave TED talk's!

  86. That was the freaking monkey that lead me to this video. Now i need to come back with my paper 😥

  87. I'm at the point where I can see the big picture and the consequences of procrastinating, but I still procrastinate because there's nothing else to do even when there is

  88. pretty interesting title but i will watch this later…

  89. Well he just stated the obvious… none f's were given. Now back to procrastinating.

  90. yikes…wake up call

  91. Scary how accurate this is

  92. Litterary my every Saturday.

  93. 物凄く分かる笑 夏休みの宿題を先延ばしにしている間におサルのせいで(世間的ではなく自分的に)物凄いアイディアが生まれたりするんだよね笑


  94. That life calender should be handed out in primary school

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